You think by now we’d be over it. How many times have we been told, it’s not whether you win or lose, it’s how you play the game? That we play for the love of the game, that even reputedly “very talented” teams can hit a losing streak? Still, don’t we all still love winning? Aren’t lawyers paid to win? I can’t help myself — I get a thrill when I win. Except lately, I’ve been on a run of “runner-ups,” and as a result, I’m redefining &ldquo …